Adult Conversations is a book created where women and men can discuss
mature issues that are meant to be addressed by adults. It’s a book
where you can engage in a mature conversation that will make you think.
These fun, but often times, interesting and controversial issues stir
up emotions that are sensitive, happy, sometimes painful, but always
real. Within these pages are RAW, to the point, and what men and women
really think or wonder about each other. These conversations are those
that many have thought about, but dared to journey any farther than
within their own private thoughts or amongst those they trust most.
Some of the very questions can be answered by reading what Toi
considers as, her BRAVE SOULS, those who answer her direct, to the
point, and raw ADULT CONVERSATIONS QUESTIONS. Many of the answers have
been unchanged, to give a real and raw view of how people express their
true opinions. Read how mature and often times sexual issues are
discussed by men and women, as they battle with their personal points
of view, as to see who is right, who is wrong, or simply what they
think may be the best way of handling a situations topic. No two
questions are the same, neither are the conversations. Therefore, with
each DAILY question, you will get different people, different
responses, and different ADULT CONVERSATIONS.
This book is considered
as the NEW AND IMPROVED VERSION of the BIRDS AND THE BEES, where
everyone can learn something new, different, exciting, or just plain
fun, when it comes to SEX!
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A FEW QUESTIONS DISCUSSED IN VOLUME 2!
7) Do men think women go OVERBOARD with their hair, makeup, clothes and shoes? Women, do you think men should do MORE to groom themselves? Page 46
8) What secret did you find out that SHOCKED the hell out of you? What did you do? Page 47
9) Why do people (MAINLY MEN) feel you have to LIE to someone if you're still getting to know them? Page 48
10) When someone u are in a relationship with ALWAYS takes their time to call /text you, what does that mean? Page 49
40) What would u do, if some1 FLIRTED with u each time they saw u & then IGNORED u when they were with their mate? Page 91
41) If some1 u were interested n mainly communicated with u by text, what would u think and do? Page 92
42) What do u tell a male, who is a stranger, who has his legs gapped opened so WIDE they rub against a lady when seated at a public event? Page 97
43) What are your thoughts about saving sex until you get married? Page 98
44) If your kids don't like ur special friend/partner, do you try 2 fix it, or break up? Page 99
45) EXPLAIN, how would someone break-up with their partner without hurting their feelings? Page 102
46) What's the difference when a guy tries to talk to you and u turn him down but turn around and talk to another guy that's approaching u with the same approach? Page 104
102) Have any of you participated in SEX FETISHES and S&M's? What happened? Page 258
103) Can ORAL SEX ALONE satisfy YOU? Page 259
104) If someone depended/relied on watching porn or using sex toys before and during sex, what would that mean? Page 260
105) During oral sex, why do some men NOT properly clean their balls? Don't they realize they sweat and smell? Page 261
106) During oral sex. Why do some men believe ALL woman WANT to swallow? Page 262
107) Do men mainly ACT on satisfying a CURRENT need to have sex and after that need is satisfied, is it on to the next coochie? Page 268
108) Guys have u ever made a woman squirt? Page 270
MILD QUESTIONS AND CONVERSATIONS:
What secret did you find out that SHOCKED the hell out of you? What did you do?
Lois: How far down the rabbit hole goes when it comes to the Health Industry and their ruthlessness in making money off the misfortunes of others...... I took ownership of my health and now look to natural solutions whenever possible. Some of the meds I was on were not only poison but damaged the Central Nervous System.... I was dx with "benign tremors"... HA. There was nothing benign about the medications I was on giving me symptoms identical to Parkinson's disease. I regained my balance and self-confidence once I went on an aggressive detox...
Jina: That a person I had a Sandy on when I was younger is gay..... I cried but expected
Lois: @Jina, Man that sucks and NOT in good way either.
Toi: When my step-sister, who was 15, NEVER knew my father. I was 26 and she/her mother, FOUND ME and told me she was my sister. But then, when her mother told her she had another father and she would take her to meet him, he had been dead for TWO YEARS! :(( NOT GOOD! I lost touch with her and would be curious to see how she's doing, because her mother later died.
Monica: um nothing shocks me.. I always assume some bs is in their closet.
Why do people (MAINLY MEN) feel you have to LIE to someone if you’re still getting to know them?
Karen: Lying and deception are a part of our culture. People learn to do it in childhood. Parents say, "Tell the truth," and they beat, whip, and punish the children when they do. Lying is first nature to most adults. Every single TV show is about lying, being deceptive, highlights and showcases people's untruths. I had a two year old teach me how to tell the truth almost 2 decades ago and ever since then I made a commitment to being pathologically honest and I've lived IMHO my life that way ever since. When you meet someone, you want to put your best foot forward, you want them to like you, so people tend to tell people what they think they want to hear. Eventually, the truth will come out. Soon and very soon, that person will see that you aren't what you initially portrayed yourself to be. We are so emotionally immature as a society, we don't understand the importance of bold and unadulterated truth. It's liberating to tell the truth, to say, "This is who I am. I'm not perfect but I'm still a great person and I am putting myself out there with all my flaws showing and I hope you will accept me for who I am." As long as we are a culture of self-centered, emotionally immature, damaged people, lying will be the defacto position for those seeking to form relationships.
Toi: Damnnnnnnnnnnn girlllllllll, you getting REAL up in here! I LOVE IT! Thanksss for the TRUTH!
When someone u are in a relationship with ALWAYS takes their time to call/text you, what does that mean?
Victor: No, just cheating. That's been my experience & I so pray that it isn't yours.
Beverly: It may mean he is just being a man.
We as women are more into calling, texting and stuff. The more they contact us, the more in love with us we think they are...'he didn't call so he don't care' ya'll know how we are. I sometimes think that the 'only' reason they call us is because we need that attention. If it is a genuine relationship, I don't think it means anything if he is slow about contact. Men are different creatures, they usually figure if they are still with us we should know they love us... so why do they need to call and text! LOL. I get called 2 or 3 times a day, but I don't think if he didn't call it means anything negative. If he is just plain ole too busy or not feeling you...well ya don't need him anyway!! LOL
Victor: Well, ummmm, Beverly, I am a man, and when I love a woman I call her & text her promp
to all the time, because my love, and her love, is always on my mind.
Beverly: I did not say ALL men. Like I said, my man calls me about 2-3 times a day. I don't have that problem, but typically like Steve Harvey says in his book, a lot of things men do is because they love us and want to please us, but if left just up to the man, he would not do a lot of things. I think if a man loves a woman, he will call and 'pursue'... I just had to learn that if a man doesn't call all the time, it does not mean that he does not love me.
Anna: Aren't really feeling u
Becky: Just NOT into you. Or they're already committed to someone/something else.
Ron: Well, I agree with most of what Bev says but there are no 100% cut and dry answers for this one. A busy individual can love you dearly but texting/calling is NOT on the top of the things to do list. On the other hand, they might just be "cheating". It's a hard one to call. It would have to based on an individual circumstance in my opinion (which is one of many). Good luck! ;)
Becky: @Ron if you love a person, they shouldn't doubt it n or have to wonder about non communication, that little tid bit, would have been cleared up in the beginning. Oh yeah, could be stress!
Gabby: If it's a constant habit it could mean you’re not a high priority to this person. If that is the case.. like the saying goes:’ Never make someone your priority when to them you are only an option.
Toi: GREAT ANSWERS, thank GOD I don't have that problem with my husband. After over 2 yrs of marriage, 2gether 4 over 29, we BOTH call each other several times a day if we r apart. 4 me, communication is so IMPORTANT! I tell my friend the same thing, if he doesn't have time 2 keep in touch with u regularly, ten he ISN'T into u! Which is why I also tell her 2 keep it moving dot com! She's BETTER than stressing over some1 who like Gabrielle says does NOT make u a priority!
Victor: Wow Ron!!!!! Great answer man! Who the heck are ya? Dr. Phil? Wow!
Marie: that means it ain't a real relationship.
Angela: Just NOT that into you. I recently broke up With my ex BC I was always calling /texting ... Its rude, his excuse was he is not a phone person ... not long before found nude pictures of other women's, which of course I should have let him totally go (foolish heart) ... either way if a man can't call or text, trust me Move on!!!!!
MEDIUM QUESTIONS WITH CONVERSATIONS:
What is a person willing to do to create and keep a happy home.
Jina: Wow I've been there I was willing to get my son dad help because he used drugs but he didnt want to change and got abuse so I had to protect me n my kids
Kay: Well, one of the easiest is to keep the actual house clean and in order. A clean and orderly environment helps to see things more clearly, you feel more relaxed when you're home. It's a minor thing but it helps a lot.
Sheryl: be a lady in the streets and a freak in the bedroom that my friends is how u keep a man at HOME ijs!
Paula: The elderly women tell me lots of compromise and sacrifice.
Erk: Jina, we are all powerless over drugs and alcohol Honey. It is waaaaay to much for regular humans to fix. So don't give up on doing something fabulous for a man over a crack head. What do I do? Well, I learned to hear my man. To become an actor in my relationship instead of a reactor. I have learned to take the action of inaction. Everytime I get pissed, I stop. I say or do nothing. I wait until I hear my partner and do my damndest to see where he is coming from because I am certain that the man I love is not as stupid as he sometimes seems to be. I’m just not seeing the situation the way he is and YES that means keeping my mouth shut and dealing with some bone chilling craziness until I realize "Oh! That's what he thinks. Whew! for a minute, hour, day, month, week there, I thought I was married to Forrest Gump!!" Yeah. That's how long I keep my mouth shut to keep my home happy. All that ghetto BS of "Oh no he didn't!!" or "Oh he don't know who I am!" and "Oh he better recognize!" I threw out the window and replaced it with a happy home.
Shonda: Clean and quiet relaxing home with meals ready when he arrives home, Help him unwind in whatever way he wishes to. If he wants space then give it to him, if he wants to make love then give
him the time of his life by satisfying all his needs. If he is hungry, feed him. Treat him like a king always. Listen to him and communicate. Work hard to make sure he is happy, pray for him and let him know you support him in every way. When there are problems, talk and communicate without creating a hostile environment. If he is angry (whether it be angry with work or other people or maybe you), step away and give him space and talk when he is ready. Do something new a special regularly to surprise him when he comes home. Go on dates and enjoy time together away from everything.
Erk: " If he is angry(whether it be angry with work or other people or maybe you), step away and give him space and talk when he is ready." Girl that's golden!!! You need to make a T-Shirt out of that one!
While developing a new relationship with someone, do guys get EXCITED to hear from or see the girl, like most girls get while WAITING to hear from or see the guy?
Nikki: I believe so.
Joyce: I think they hide it better than we do.
Jerome: If, the woman is Drop Dead Gorgeous.We get excited like a fat kid in a free candy store or a five year old on christmas morning.
Shonda: I think they do but some hide it to keep her from thinking he is just as excited as she is.
Toi: So Jerome, when a guy IS excited, does he let the girl know, or work hard at playing hard to get or uninterested? Where's the REST of the men? We wanna hear what u REALLY think!
Jerome: I usually follow her lead.Trying to see if the attraction is mutual. Make sure I do all the gentleman stuff women except. Keep the conversation flowing. As yall know from this group I talk alot.lol
I remember going to pick a date from her home in Anaheim Hills.So, was so drop dead gorgeous when she came to the door. I was completely speechless.She immediately grab my hand and gave me a tour of the house. Stopping at the bedroom.Then went into her bathroom.I could hear her talking on the phone.I put my ear to the bathroom door. She was telling her girlfriend that wanted to forget going to dinner and fuck me right now. She said. hes so quite makes me want to fuck him even more to make him scream out my name.
We go to dinner at restaurant at Island Shopping Center in Garden Grove. I kept staring into her eyes barely saying word and you know that was hard for me.When it was time to go to the movies. She said. Do you want to waste time at the movies or go back to my place and make our own xrated movie. To keep the story Grated. We made a three day nasty movie that would put any porno movie to shame.
Lisa: Dang, Jerome. lol! and when yer book coming out?
NOW for the HOT SECTION!
How do you tell a man his DICK is NOT THE BOMB?
Jeané: Get up!
Iris: You tell him.
Bonita: Cut him off... Never be available to him.
Renee: After you get Toi? Tell him it was a one time thing.
Toi: I guess he would KNOW if you never revisited it!
Renee: No repeating that bullshit and attitude like a MF
Becky: Hmmm, I think you just did. Copy and Paste, Copy and Paste. Yep.
Renee: Becky, ctfu. ROTGDFL
Janet: "Your DICK is not the bomb."
Shonda: I would just finish that one, I would never go on another date with him again.
Ronn: You need to do better
Corey: I'll let you know what she says after she stops feening for it. I suppose she'll eventually say it. Well, let's see. We're both in our early 40's... it's been 14 years already... carry the one.... account for inflation and possible depreciation ... maybe around our 90's she might say something. The real question is... How do you Tell a Woman HER PUSSY was tired and and echoing cavern?
Jina: Omg lol Corey but you do have a good pov. Now to answer the question I usually don't have this problem with guys I have dated but however when I do and I'm just laying there no sound, no bumping back and when ur done I just get up and take a shower and get dress, you wasn't the bomb
Toi: Ok Corey. Answer ur question. Inquiring minds want to KNOW!!!!
Jina: Toi why dont u post Corey question foe us to answer
Renee: Jina, ctfu. Okay
Corey: LOLOLOL... That's funny. I feel like I have to balance these attacks on us poor defenseless men. You'd almost think these women walk on water 'round here. I can contest that they DON'T! LOLOLOLOL.. I gotta come out to the west coast and start some trouble......
Swinging - Threeways - Group sex. Have you ever participated? If so, how do you handle watching your mate enjoy someone else? Are rules established ahead of time?
Ronn: I will wait to give my answer.
Vincent: rules must be established from the start. I know people who do this all the time. It works
for some couples. Some relationships end from this behavior. I can't do it because I don't want to share. But if I'm not in a relationship it's on and krackin
Shonda: I would like to go to a swinger party just to see what its like. Participating probably not who knows what will happen if we ever go to one but I would love to see what its like. I don't think I could go through a lifestyle of watching my mate have sex with anyone else and just watching it happen. We have done threesomes before but I could not continue that in a lifestyle either where I would be sharing him on multiple occasions. I have learned that I am not really cool with sharing. But I tried the experience so I can say I Been There, Done That.
Erk: Have you not met me? Oh yeah. You haven't. RULES ARE A MUST. My partner and I have plenty. There can be no deviation. Our main rule, and sometimes I know my partner's insecure ass uses it just to make sure I will follow, NO EMOTIONAL COMMITTMENT. The way this looks, if we are planning a 3-way or a swinging date, no matter what, we are free to cancel at any time. Whether the party has started
or not. If we are on our way out the door, and one of us changes our minds, CANCELLED. No reason needed. "I don't want to" is reason enough and no questions asked. No need to call and cancel. We just don't show up. If we are at the party and one of us is uncomfortable, we're out.
If the other party or parties have a problem, so what! They are toys who can be replaced at any time regardless how good or fine they are. What matter is us and our comfort. Not theirs.
ALWAYS USE CONDOMS. ALWAYS BE OPEN AND HONEST. NO PLAY UNLESS THE OTHER IS IN 100% AGREEMENT. NO DRUG ADDICTS, DRUNKS OR ANYONE UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF ANYTHING OTHER THAT A HARDON and any other rule that comes up on the fly that either one of us feels the need to make. Because the main thing that matters is us and our comfort. PERIOD.....
Should ur lover/mate ever see u MASTERBATE or should u ever see them?
Carlene: It can be fun if done right
Nikki: Yup. Switch it up.
Ronn: She masturbate both of us, I get no pleasure in self stimulation.
Brenda: try it together!
Jerome: I know its a turn on for her and me when she masturbates for us.
Don: Should try masturbating to eat other. Let her lay in the bed n masturbate n u lean on the wall facing her n masturbate. Dim the lights to make it sexy. Who ever comes first has to provide oral to help the other climax.
Fay: Yes it adds excitement
Keisha: No, sometimes it's good to hold back in a relationship. No need to pull out all the tricks just yet..
Jina: I do it alone but they can sneak in and watch
Deme: heck why not? you can even do it together or enhance that orgasm they are about to have... sometimes it's foreplay... sometimes you may just need to take the edge off and if they are there and wanna watch.... I say let em'
Shonda: We both have done it together and have videoed ourselves doing it and sent to eachother. It is very erotic and can help us when we are not together and can't be with eachother at the moment. Like when one of us are out fo town and need soemthing to hold us over.
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SMALL LIST OF QUESTIONS IN ADULT CONVERSATIONS
15) DO SEX TOYS ‘ENHANCE’ OR ‘INTIMIDATE’ A SEXUAL PARTNER? (Page 61)
16) CAN A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE SURVIVE WITHOUT SEX? WHY/HOW? (Page 63)
34) DID YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW EVER GET DUMPED, OR DID THE DUMPING, BY TEXT/EMAIL? WHAT HAPPENED? (Page 153)
35) IS SEX GOOD ENOUGH TO SECURE A RELATIONSHIP? WHY? (Page 155)
36) WHAT MAKES SOMEONE CROSS THE LINE(CHEATING) WHEN IT COMES TO SEX? (Page 156)
54) DOES IT OFFEND YOU IF YOUR MAN WATCHES PORN OR WATCHES IT WHILE YOU’RE HAVING SEX? MEN, WHAT IS THAT EXCITES YOU ABOUT WATCHING PORN? (Page 219)
55) WHAT ATTRACTS YOUNGER MEN OR WOMEN TO OLDER MEN OR WOMEN? (Page 219)
70) WHY DO MEN GET JEALOUS WHEN THEIR LADY LOOKS AT A GOOD LOOKING/BUFF MAN, BUT IT’S OK FOR HIM TO LOOK AT A CUTE/WELL BUILT WOMAN? (Page 288)
71) IS IT TRUE THAT MEN WHO HAVE BIG STOMACHS HAVE SMALLER D&*KS? AND SKINNY MEN HAVE LONGER D&*KS? EXPLAIN HOW THEIR SIZES ARE FELT/AFFECTED WITH SEX? (Page 290)
EXCERPTS FROM ADULT CONVERSATIONS
WHY DO WOMEN ADMIT THEY R MARRIED OR IN A RELATIONSHIP FASTER THAN A MAN WILL ADMIT?
Victor: For 2 reasons, Toi! They are for (1) attracted to that brotha and are ashamed for feeling hot and bothered. And for (2) they leave it for chance just in case that brotha still wants to dance. "Sexual Trance"
Terri: Because some men are still gambling with their relationship.
Anna: Because we don't like to play games.
Carlene: Men like too see how far they can get
Lorri: I agree. Men wanna see how far they can go.
Ada: I agree. It's always a game to them. They are going to play as long as they can and see how far they can get.
Dan: I think there are exceptions to that Rule! Cause well, that is not always the case. Sometimes it is Visa-Versa.
Willie: I have no trouble telling a woman I'm in a relationship when I'm in one. Tell you the truth some women come on stronger when a man tells them that. Why do some women come on stronger when a man tells them that he's in a relationship? your new question Toi.
HAVE U, OR SOME1 U KNOW, PURPOSELY LEFT PERSONAL ITEMS AT UR LOVERS HOUSE OR IN THEIR CAR JUST 2 LET SOME1 KNOW U/THEY WERE THERE? WHAT HAPPENED?
Cyndi: No... But I've seen it done with folks I just began dating.
Kelley: I left a belt at a friends and it was not on purpose. I asked about my belt and he had no idea what I was talking about!! I do not know whatever happened to my belt. So I guess the item mysteriously vanished. Maybe he got caught up and did not know how to explain where my belt was at or maybe he got beat with it! This was years ago.
Van: Yes, Toi. When an ex had sent me a message on MySpace. She heard of my success as an Author through her father. She said the dude who she left me for, she winded up marrying. He became very successful as an architect. He traveled the world with his lover who was also married to a guy in the service. To make a long story short I flew out the next day and met her down South. She took me to the beach after picking me up at the airport. We swam in the ocean. She in her bikini and me in my speedo with it all bouncin around as I embraced her with a sweet salt-water kiss. Then she took me back to their house since he was away in Japan. When she got in the shower I got in behind her and rubbed the sand on her beautiful golden chest and sucked and kissed the back of her neck. After I made love to her in their bed. I left the Xl Magnum in his favorite Timberland boots along with my Flight ticket from Pittsburgh. The next day I walked outside behind her in my silk blue Penguin pajamas and bare-naked chest and smacked her butt so the neighbors could see. I went back to Pittsburgh and a week later found out that they had a huge fight. She went to jail and they got divorced. I regret that affair. I regret sDeanping with married women. God saved me and I still ask and I asked HIS forgiveness.
Letty: I've thought about it... Lol bc I know my friends gf don't like that we're tight.. But that would just cause drama for him so I didn't!! Lol
Lola: Yes! After dating for a couple of months I figured "its time" lol. I left earrings, clean under garments. Nothing has happened tho. He just let me kno I left things @ his place...*shrugs
Dean: @Van. DAYYYYUUUUMMMM!!! IT’S not your fault man. She was married, right? I mean ain't like u twisted her arm. On that note. Folks just don't do certain things so easily. I'm thinking she's cheated before, just wasn't with you.
Selena: Wow Van, although I wouldn’t have enough nerves to do that... That was sweet & wicked .... Lol....
Vincent: I had someone leave something and I thru it away. Don't be leaving shit unless you live here!
Leonard: The universal code for men is toilet seat up. My sisters taught me the woman's code: hair pins; back of erring in the couch; lipstick stains on wine glasses; underwear; hair in the sink; tampon box left under the sink; perfume on pillow: toothbrush; weave extensions in dresser drawer; can of Go Girl in the refrigerator; etc
Toi: LOL, you guys are funny! Damnnnnn Van, that's CRAZY! But WHY did SHE go to jail?
Van: You will have to wait for my movie or autobiography to get that story, Toi. LOL
Toi: OK, I'll be waiting! :)
George: LMAO!!!!!! WHY YOU ASK TOI? I was messing with this girl from VA BEACH. She would come up every weekend and we would hook up, stay the whole weekend at the hotel smoking, drinking, fuckin. This went on for about 3months then I started catching feelings cause the booty was good. I took a trip to VA BEACH to see her, and when I did she told me she lived with this old dude who took care of her but wasn't hitting it right. So that's where I came in, I was crushed. She knew I was hurt so to make it up to me she took me to their house while he was at work and we fucked for hours all over the house, every time I change rubbers. I left the used one under the coach, under the bed, under the kitchen table etc. We left like 30min before dude got off, she had to take me back to my hotel room, so he was home when she got back. My phone was ringing off the hook like 2hours later, LMAO! I think she got her ass whipped, I never heard from her again.
Barbara: Mr. George you do the most. Lol
Toi: George, damnnnn, you baddddd!!! lol She's the CRAZY one for taking you to her house! :)
Tara: hell no and it's childish.... marking territory like a dog...ijs...ha ha
Annie: I have...LOL!!! When I first started seeing my daughters father, I used to leave shit over his house all the time...panties, pads, shirts, shoes...whatever I felt like leaving. Just incase he was seeing someone else she would know that she wasn’t the only one...LOL! But I think when women go to a man, they’re dating, house for the first time, you look for shit! I know I do...bobbi pins, combs, pads...etc. and if you find something you know he ain’t keeping shit real with you!
Toi: lol, funny!
George: Thanks for that info Annie :) cleaning up now :))
Corey: Chicks forever FOR-F'N-EVER Leaving shiggity at my place. Part of the Shyster Club story is a team who come thru to clear that kind of stuff (if you are cheating). I 'm thinking of writing a full novel just on a team of people who do that kind of checking of the house. I have found bras and panties, of course. Cell phone chargers, car keys!!!! Yes... Car Keys. Leaving the house, get in their car...30 minutes later ... doorbell rings. Now, what did you think you would catch me doing?? Well, let me take that back ... women leaving the home tend to be walking funny and in a state of shock. I usually offer ibuprofen and water in a little station by the door on their way out and with a list of suggested chiropractors so maybe they're just dazed. So yes...things do get forgotten after the experience. Last year ... I had a great yard sale just on that crap alone (jokes. lol)
Toi: LOL, Corey, you are a foollllllllllllll!!! lol
HOW DO U KNOW WHEN SOME1 WANTS 2 BE WITH U ROMANTICALLY (HAVE SEX WITH U)?
Don: u can feel the chemistry, It’s almost electric energy
Rodney: LOL! I have waaaay too many answers for this one. I'd hate to ruin my reputation for posting them.
Tracie: When he constantly stares at certain body parts and licks his lips.
Becky: I make them tell me!
Dean: Usually I'm told. Which I like because I remain a gentleman at all times. Don't wanna come across "thirsty" as my adult children say... Or otherwise allow as Don says, know from the chemistry
Joyce: I see the bulge in their pants. Lol
Dean: Dayyyyuuuummmm Joyce. Now that's funny!
Don: Listen women you have no real way of telling because honesty, most men want to be romantic with y’all, even if you don’t know him, Chris Rock once said, when a man holds the door for u all he really doing is offering u sex
Byron: Feel between their legs. Nah but real talk y’all are grown just speak it
Monique: I will have to agree with Byron on this one.
Terry: Yea just bring it up in convo
Larry: in my opinion u can usually tell by the energy that they are giving off
Toi: I would have to agree with Larry, bc, by the time you feel between their legs, hell, you SHOULD know something wayyyy before that happens! :)
Net: @Byron, Lol if they let you even get that close to their legs you should know its going down :)
You can lay on the bed and start J.O. If she joins in she was ready. If you look up and you’re alone, she wasn't -Lil bro thought-
Lynn: Lol...I never assume. But most guys have already fucked u with their eyes before they've opened their mouth to say a word...lol
Letty: mutual chemistry.
Jonn: Wine and dine you for a whole week
Jina: you really don’t know unless they tell you
Keisha: Depends. Most men will invite you over and put in a movie. 9 times out of 10 it will have sex scenes. They will want to cuddle, than next thing you know you are on your back spread eagle
Dean: Haaaa Wooo Keisha ...That's hilarious. God that's funny!
Toi: lol, yeah, that's a good one Keisha! Too funny, but true!
Megan: You can tell by the way they kiss you and the foreplay. I think if they want sex only its more rushed but romantically they take their time and you can feel they really care for you
Tara: maybe rephrase the question.... I can name 69 ways I know someone wants to have sex with me...but just to be with me romantically-sex won’t be the only thing on their agenda....
Cathy: Hmmmmm another one of those questions that I'm too chicken to answer. But you just know.
WHAT R UR THOUGHTS ABOUT AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP?
Cassie: works for those who are open minded enough to be in one :)
Carri: I am too positive. I don’t want anyone touching my goods.
Letty: If I ever got back with my EX HUBBY that's the only way I could see it working. lol But on the real could be a Lil scary you would have to be EXTRA CAREFUL
Keisha: I been in plenty of open relationships, I just didn’t know at the time...I'm not for them.
Ronn: They are great for those, who can handle it. Some are in polyamory relationships and just don't understand the decisions they made.
Toi: Keisha, too funny, but damnnnn! Yes, I'm with y'all, don't wanna share my goods either. The funny thing is most men don't see a problem with it when it's other girls they are sharing with, but if they have to share with other guys, oh hell to the nahhhhhhhhhh!! :) Double standard #1!
Christy: 'closed' case
Cindy: I think an open relationship is the same as sayin I wanna have sex with other ppl. But when I’m not into that person I’ll say, oh I’m in a relationship..... not cool!!!!!!!!
Erk: Rules and boundaries. Can't be done without rules and boundaries. And they are not for everybody and rarely are they forever.
Don: Another name for open relationship is "dating", I may go out to dinner with u, we hang once in awhile, we can sDeanp together, but I’m not claiming you as mine, but in your mind we are together. Most open relationships are like Keisha said, one party may not knowing about it
Erk: I mean the open part. An open relationship is most time just a phase a couple is going through.
Karen: This is my thought.... if it is open, I don't want it, because it means keeping options open. I don't care how you dice, slice or chop it. That is what it means or the other thought; if this is the only way I can have the person...open relationship is what it will be.
Don: Really Karen? So u will conform to accepting an open relationship?
Erk: As I said, they are not for everybody. And if they are not for you, there is no way you should allow anyone to include you in one. An open relationship requires communication and honesty on a whole different level if it is a sustainable relationship and not the END of a relationship.
Karen: Expletive here (your choice), no, I want to be closed and private. I was saying that is the other way of looking at it for those who want to do the open thing. I wish my husband would come up in here with some stuff like that. We will be on the national news.
Aishia: I think people should stop acting like ALL relationships aren't open. Marriages and all
Don: See Aishia that’s exactly want I’m talking about!!! Most relationships n about 96% of marriages are open, its just one party doesn’t know about it yet!
Cathy: If I wanted that I'd be single. Don't want someone else's germs.
Jina: rather be single
Crystal: Why be in a relationship if other people are going to be involved sexually, emotionally, etc? I'm jealous and the thought of my man being intimate with another woman doesn't make me happy nor does it turn me on.
Jonn: Personally a lot of relationships are open
Toi: very true, they call it CHEATING!
Iris: Not! Too much like work and hurt feelings. And when do you decide to stop, what if the other person isn't ready?
Dean: They usually end up n disaster.
Dee: just thinking about the germ-swapping they would be doing would be a turn off to me. I might be a slight germaphobic
Toi: VERY TRUE and NO SHARING for me either! But true, it DOES happen as several of you have said, WITHOUT the knowledge of the other mate, which is simply CHEATING! But, as some of you said, if it's something you WANT in your relationship then more power to you. I guess as long as everyone is in agreement and hopefully practicing SAFE SEX, then enjoy!
Tara: I can handle if he can.... if we not doing it together, we wont be doing it separately, capeesh? lol
^^^I would be open to it is all^^^
Annie: What’s the point of being in a relationship if it’s going to be open??? We might as well just be friends with benefits...
Tara: Annie actually it could have it's perks.... at least ur not cheating...u can have a boyfriend, boyfriend no 2, and maybe a girl on the side, only for the ones who get down like that...and can handle it...that would be a lot to take on and lots of fire the department wouldn't be able to put out ;) lol...
Annie: Hahahaha....Yeah it would be! But could you really call it a relationship???
Toi: I agree, I think it would/should just be labeled as FWB! No sharing for me!
Irma: It's NOT a relationship. It's a buddy system.
WHAT WOULD U DO IF U SAW A FRIEND/RELATIVE'S SON/DAUGHTER'S NUDE PICTURE/VIDEO ON THE INTERNET?
Debbie: Forward the clip or pictures to parent and let them handle it.
Tina: Depends on how old the daughter/son is. Over 18 it is their business. But I would message them and advise them to not put themselves out there like that. Under 18 I'm notifying the parents.
Priscilla: tell the parents and see what I can do to help have it removed IF they UNDER 21
Connie: depends on the age of said child......adult aged...keep scrolling
Dion: it depends on that friend. Now if it was a relative I'm going in and would try to reach out to that family member and let them know the consequences behind their actions
Don: I wouldn’t say anything, more than likely they know and I don’t wanna embarrass them.
Toi: Interestingggg Don. Yes, especially if they were fewer than 18. I would forward the pic and let parents handle it. Hell, I will and have contacted some of my friends if I read messages on FB that trouble me about something their kids said, even if the kids r grown b/c u never know if what they're sayn is a call for help.
Dorothy: If I would have known all the trouble I could get into...I wouldn't have done any of it! LOL
Cathy: Well can't really answer but I do have answers. Ya know. Lol.
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT ADULT CONVERSATIONS
Jina Love: i love them because they keep it real
Lynn Jackson: Ditto!
Otis Hawkins: DITTO
Vincent Shelley: I love them. I get some great information. I learn from the comments.
Ronn Ramm: It gives me a smile.
K.d. Wallace: Some are intriguing and stimulating while others seem judgemental. Quite a few kinky ones for sure. Then there's the occasional bible study along the way.
Adrienne Branch: Entertaining, interesting, intriguing, stimulating and educational...
Iris Kay Trammel: What everybody else has said. I do not think anything bad about anyone everyone is different with their own life experiences. Take it from someone that was called a ho all through school when it was not true you learn not to judge quickly.
Joyce Walker: I enjoy reading them. I think some people may take the questions a little to serious but they are interesting. And I get to express myself.
Ronin Ali: Use discretion! I've said some things but never secretive stuff!
Lisa Cho: I'm with K D. More often than not I'm thinking..."If you're such a prude..why are you answering this question? " lmfao! I do love seeing the responses though. People crack me up.
T'ana Marshall: Although I dont post, I do read them... I find the comments both entertaining and educational.
Joyce Walker: Like Lisa said if you are a prude why are you reading. In my business i get a lot of people coming to my parties and saying "oh im not into that kind of stuff" I want to scream "Why in the hell are you here?"
T'ana Marshall: I personally dont post because I'm fully aware that my post along with the thread (of adult content) will show up in my teen daughyers FB newsfeed. NOTHING to do with being a prude... more to do with being respectful of my daughter..
Toi Moore: LOL, u should ask them Joyce Walker, just be nice, smile and say girllll, at the end. Wendy Williams always says if u say girllll at the end, it softens the blow! . I gotta do that more myself too!
Joyce Walker: I will next time. There is at least one at every party.
Lisa Cho: Ain't it funny....take any question...adding Girl at the end, and it softens it...But try adding Bitch to the BEGINNING of the same sentence..ROTLMAO!
Joyce Walker: Whats funny is the quietest person there acts shy until we get into the other room and they spend the most money.
Toi Moore: Lisa Cho, I like ur approach! Joyce Walker, girlllll, u KNOW ur right and I'm SURE that after a few drinks, u can't tell her a damn thang!!! Maybe that's what u should do, offer them a few drinks, have them sit close to you and wait for them to get a little buzzed and buy alllllll ur stuff! We STILL need to do some parties with my books!!!
Joyce Walker: I might have to try Lisa's way next time. My alter ego Jasmin will come out.
Toi Moore: Lol
Joyce Walker: I have some changes to make in my catalog and I am going to add your book.
Toi Moore: Now I have a couple, don't forget, Not Quite Good Enough! http://toimoore.com/notgoodenough.php
Joyce Walker That is the one. I loved it.
Johnny Roberts Jr. @ 3yrs ago I was addicted to Steve Harvey/ Shirley's Strawberry Letter forum. 80% of commenters were positive and helpful...The other 20% were cruel. On Toi's forum I've only noticed 1 rude-dude...and his A$$ got "checked" like a hockey player. ! LOL! As much as I think I know about Women, you ALLLL continue to impress me with your wisdom and candor..Thank You Ladies!
Toi Moore Heyyyyyyy, thanks Johnny Roberts Jr.! I ALWAYS love and appreciate ur comments! Don't stay away so long! Us ladies r learning from u brothas too! And helllll yeahhhhh, I will check folks here!! I HATE drama! As they say, save the damn drama for yo momma.
Johnny Roberts Jr. Iris Kay Trammel, I was thouroughly involved with most of the goings on at MHS and that "Ho" thing never crossed my radar. "SEXY AS A MOFO" did however...on a frequent basis!..IJS.
Toi Moore I think it was a girl hater thang going on!!! Hate onnnnnn!!!! GREAT feedback y'all! Thank you again for ur input and alllllll the crazy fun we have!! Continue plugging in ur comments! Continue with the funnnnn!
Iris Kay Trammel Thank you Johnny Roberts Jr. I really appreciate your words. Love you even more brother. And thank you Toi for the clarification because it was exactly that.